夜班后 · 语

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呆在内科组里最值得庆幸的是我每一天舍不得回家

这种说法可能对某些人来说很欠揍，因为对于一半以上的人而言当实习医生是件苦差

虽然无可否认每天会熬到很夜才可以回家所以身心是无比的疲累

有时候已经感觉不到脚踩在地面了

有时候只要碰到能依靠的平面整个身体的重量便自然而然靠着无法自己站立

有时候到了晚上眼睛几乎睁不开来

可是近来我发现自己渐渐喜欢上这个上班下班的规律

但是我想这绝大可能不是纯粹因为我喜欢内科

事实是我渐渐喜欢上身边的人

而这些一直在我身边围绕的人们

让我更确定

我喜欢上班

我也更喜欢看病人了

对于身边的这些让我微笑的人

虽然没有对他们有深入的了解

也说不上是什么朋友

只是工作关系以上以上的这些人的确让我每天变的很开朗

只是这个原因 已足以让我期待明天的到来

跟我一起上夜班的是一位呆在内科很长一段时间的学长

可是他真的非常和蔼  没有架子  也非常随和  谦卑

所以我一直觉得他只是比我资深一点点的学长

跟他一起上夜班数次后

我有了新的认知

我原来非常享受有个人无时无刻照着我

虽然这只局限于工作

我已经无比庆幸感恩

在夜班里经历的点滴

让我已经开始想念跟学长一起上夜班了

这种很累却不舍的心态有点复杂矛盾

可是心怀感恩

若是让我重选

我宁愿每天疲劳也不想失去像现在一样对我而言无穷完美的上班组合

我每一天笑着上班笑着下班的这种情景

是不是可以维持很久很久呢

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