今天

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Raindrops keep fallin' on my head
And just like the guy whose feet are too big for his bed
Nothin' seems to fit
Those raindrops are fallin' on my head, they keep fallin'

So I just did me some talkin' to the sun
And I said I didn't like the way he got things done
Sleepin' on the job
Those raindrops are fallin' on my head, they keep fallin'

But there's one thing I know
The blues they send to meet me won't defeat me
It won't be long till happiness steps up to greet me

Raindrops keep fallin' on my head
But that doesn't mean my eyes will soon be turnin' red
Cryin's not for me
'Cause I'm never gonna stop the rain by complainin'
Because I'm free
Nothin's worryin' me



不知不觉，哼着这首曲子，眼眶里盛满的是泪水。

今天是第二天踏入rehab的posting。rehab是我喜欢的项目，因为这门医学治人而不治病。

可是今天我一整天在医院的病房里，从早上8点半到10点半；十点半到rehab诊所到十二点。午餐后1点半我又回到病房，到2点半我再次回到诊所；4点回到病房…这样陆陆续续来回走动，其实我只是凭着剩余的一点力气完成我需要做的事情。最后从7楼走回学校的那段路我其实已经感觉不到我的脚踝了。眼睛其实从一早开始便觉苦涩，真难受。今天真的好累，回到家只是还有力气泡了一杯milo吃了几片饼干后便倒下了。7点半起床奋斗，突然嘴里开始哼着这首曲子，心里的不忿统统都被抒发出来了。朋友电话约来要见面，可是我一推再推，不是因为我不想见面，只是有时间的时候我却已倒下，干活的时候却不能离开岗位。还真希望朋友不会因此而有所介怀。今天好累，只是让我更清楚地知道原来作为医学生就必须这么努力克服疲累的。更重要的是，该懂的我好像也没弄懂。今天诊所里医生问了一些问题我却哑口无言，只是点头，把问题记录在笔记本里，却不知道真的好好探讨那个问题会是什么时候的事了。心里有股强大的负能量一直驾驭着我的毅力。我感觉快倒下了，却知道我只有越来越多需要懂得事情，一直在增加的是我该懂却还不懂的分内事。我只能用剩余的一点定力让自己坚持走下去。内科啊内科，不是我不喜欢你，只是你一直让人窒息，怎么办呢？

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