TR心声2

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TR week 5-6
时间过得很快
肚子上屁股上以及大腿的肥肉并没有减少很多
今天去做了review
称上的号码几乎没变
脂肪量一样那么多
是哪里做的不对吗

过去2周
有好几天饿肚子
又有好几天去吃麻辣火锅
又有好几天没有控制食欲，饿了就吃水果
水果可能吃的太多了
运动量不够
睡眠品质不够好

加上身体状况没有很好
一直流鼻涕喉咙痛
排泄也变的不怎么好了

花了好多钱
我需要看到的是更大的改变

再加上，我还有1个月不到就要‘毕业’了
结束2年++的HOUSEMAN工作
人家做2年的工作，我已经做了2年3个月了，还没结束
是不是我不够上进呢
还是真的只是运气不好
老爸常说，把命运怪罪在运气上的人多半是不够上进的人
因为上进心可以胜过运气，只是看自己努力的足不足够而已。

几天前KKM正式发了文告，说了让我心情变很灰的事情
2年后我可能没有工作了
我虽然真的不大喜欢Shift和On call的生活，因为对身体不好
可是如果不能保住饭碗，还有什么可谈呢

以后怎样，我不知道
可是我很担心，2年后我会重蹈覆辙
人家过关了，我还卡住那里
因为不够上进积极

不是说好自己的命运在自己手里吗

看看身边的朋友们
他们好像前进好多了，连影子都看不到了
我还原地踏步
这个结局，我愿意认命吗

反正，心情很灰。

没有把握的事情，没能够预料的事情
我最不喜欢

因为没有信心
不知道接下去的路应该怎么走



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