不做会后悔的疯狂的事情

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今天也是思考的日子。
虽然有点不认同钟子伟说“大学生涯里如果没有交过男女朋友，那么就不算上过大学” 这句话，可是骨子里还是有一点失落感。哈哈。我什么时候感受到真纯的爱呢？我想，我就是太不单纯了，所以到今天大三了，还是一个人。

今天想些什么呢？我想，过了接下来的3个月，我就正式从PHASE I毕业，到clinical school去了。到时候的课业会有多繁忙还是无法预计，但我只知道，我的大学生涯将已过去一半了！所以，在唯一的PHASE I后的3个月假期，我必须好好珍惜，完成一系列我很想做，却至今没机会完成的事项。

那天跟艾琳用完晚餐回家的路上，忽然有这么一个想法：我必须做一些疯狂的事情。

其实这想法是从钟子伟书里得到的启发。人生惟有一次能够真正做自己一直想要做的，却至今无法完成的事，而且这些事，如果这段时间没做，可能一辈子都不再有这样的时间，所以这些事情，没做可能后悔。而这段时间，应该就是我医学生涯里惟有的3个月假期吧。因此，从现在开始，我要好好收集想法，开始策划这3个月里，要做的“不做会后悔”的疯狂的事情！


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  1. 江佳佳10 November 2013 at 21:14

    我觉得每个人, 每一个人都会有好的事情发生在自己身上. 我也觉得有些东西溟溟中早已经注定了. 有时很刻意地去追求, 换来的是失落. 而有时在最意想不到的时候, 却又出现了.所以也别特意追求 :)

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  2. Pacinian 13 November 2013 at 17:11

    我极相信命运，相信会发生的事情终究会发生。只是在这充满规律的生活形式上，有时人累了，会觉得无趣了，就会好期待有特别的让人兴奋的事情出现在生命里 😊

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